We must come up with community responses that support children, exhibiting violent and destructive behaviour, in developing their self regulation - even if one-to-one were affordable, it's no solution; it says 'we expect you to be dangerous and incapable of better'. Children will become what they are told they are... NVR can help. #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #APVA #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #Connection #Connectedness #ConnectiveParenting #NVR #NonviolentResistance

“See a child differently, you see a different child.” - Stuart Shanker #PamLeo #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #APVA #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople

We’re now taking online bookings for our 1-day Introduction to NVR Workshop for anyone who lives or works with violent & destructive young people who do not respond to traditional reward & punishment/behaviour modification approaches. Cost - £40 per person (includes lunch and refreshments) Places are limited so please book early to avoid disappointment. #OnlineBooking #1dayIntroductiontoNVRWorkshop #NVRWorkshops #FarCottonRecCentre #Northampton #NVR #NVRTraining #NVRSupp

1-day Introduction to Nonviolent Resistance Workshop (4th Aug 2018) for anyone who lives/ works with violent & destructive young people who do not respond to traditional reward & punishment/behaviour modification approaches. Full details here #ChallengingBehaviour #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #NonviolentResistance #NVR #NVRTraining #NVRSupport #DevelopmentalTrauma #TraumaInformed #ChildhoodTrauma #ParentalSupport #ConnectedChildRaising #

“Relationships are the agents of change and the most powerful therapy is human love” - Bruce D Perry #BruceDPerry #Relationships #RelationalRepair #DevelopmentalTrauma #ToxicStress #ACEs #ChallengingBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #Connection #Connectedness #ConnectedChildRaising #NonviolentResistance

‪Young people who demonstrate the most challenging behaviour, are often the most in need of adult support and understanding.  ‬ ‪ Nonviolent Resistance can help... #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #APVA #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #DevelopmentalTrauma #TraumaInformed #ACEs #ParentalSupport #AdoptionSupport #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ConnectedChildRaising #Connection #Connectedness

Traumatised and attachment-injured children are prone to respond to authority with anger & defiance. Nonviolent Resistance can help... #ChildtoParentViolence #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #CPV #CPVA #APVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #TraumaInformed #ConnectedChildRaising #NonviolentResistance #NVR #MarshallBRosenberg

Reward & punishment based approaches do not work for all children/ teenagers. Nonviolent Resistance is an ethically-sound alternative that can transform a domestic warzone into a harmonious household, with effects that frequently extend beyond the familial and into the societal. #ChallengingBehaviour #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #ViolentChild #CPV #ParentalSupport #AdoptionSupport #CPVA #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ChildtoParentViolence #APVA #ExtremeBehaviour #Destruct

#ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CompassionateAction #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ChildtoParentViolence #CPVA #APVA #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #ExtremeBehaviour #DestructiveChild

Carrie Grant speaks to Al Coates and Scott Carson-Rennie in the latest episode of the Adoption and Fostering Podcast. She is open and honest about their struggles with Child to Parent Violence and the help that NVR (Nonviolent Resistance) has been to them. “One thing I do think has had a massive impact on us in terms of parenting for an adopted child is Nonviolent Resistance... that absolutely changed our lives.” #Fostering #CPV #NonviolentResistance #NVR #AlCoatesMBE #Carrie

In dealing with a child’s extreme and challenging behaviour, “Nonviolent Resistance begins with the acknowledgement that the child is not the problem - the problem is the problem”. #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ParentalSupport #AdoptionSupport #MarshallBRosenberg #ChildtoParentViolence #CPVA #APVA #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #ViolentChild #ExtremeBehaviour #DestructiveChild

#ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #Trauma #RussellBarkley #ChildtoParentViolence #APVA #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #DestructiveChild

#ParentalSupport #CompassionateAction #NonviolentResistance #NVR #LRKnost #CPV #CPVA #ChallengingBehaviour #ChildtoParentViolence #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #APVA #DestructiveChild

Reward-and-punishment-based approaches simply do not work for all children or teenagers. Nonviolent Resistance is an ethically-sound alternative that can transform a domestic warzone into a harmonious household... #RewardandPunishment #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #ParentalSupport #ChildtoParentViolence #MarshallBRosenberg #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #ViolentChild #APVA #DestructiveChild

Traumatised & attachment-injured children are prone to respond to authority with anger & defiance. Reward & punishment will not work with them, because compliance to authority is experienced as psychological annihilation. NVR can help... #CPV #CPVA #TraumaInformed #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ChildtoParentViolence #MarshallBRosenberg #Quotes #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #DevelopmentalTrauma #APVA

#TraumaInformed #CompassionateAction #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #MarshallBRosenberg #Quotes #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #CPVA #DestructiveChild #APVA

“For many adopted families CPVA is an issue but we are relatively small in number, beyond our circle other communities experience the same challenges of living with aggression and violent behaviour from the children they care for. These are much larger communities facing similar challenges accessing appropriate effective support. So please take the time to complete the survey, if you know a family that experiences CPVA share it with them so we can further build our knowledge

This powerful animation video, from The Open Nest, was created 3 years ago... It was produced by adopters and adoptees to raise awareness of the support needs of traumatised children. There is still much to be done! #ViolentChild #TraumaInformed #ChildhoodTrauma #AdoptedChildren #CPV #TraumatizedYouth #Trauma #MyChildHitsMe #TheOpenNest #ParentalSupport #ChallengingBehaviour #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #APVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #DestructiveChild #CPV

“Looked-after children’s needs do not disappear overnight with a successful adoption placement...” The Adoption Support Fund helps adopted families access therapeutic support to help them cope with challenging issues like Child to Parent Violence. Follow this link to find out more about the fund and how to apply. #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #NVR #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #APVA #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #CPVA #DevelopmentalTrauma

We've just updated our NVR Books board on Pinterest with this RCPV NVR Handbook for Practitioners (follow the link to download a copy). You can follow this board here for any new updates... #RCPVNVRHandbookforPractitioners #NVR #NVRBooks #Pinterest #NonviolentResistance #CPV #APVA #ChildtoParentViolence #ChallengingBehaviour #ExtremeBehaviour #ParentalAbuse #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #DevelopmentalTrauma #DestructiveChild #CPVA