We’re now taking online bookings for our 1-day Introduction to NVR Workshop for anyone who lives or works with violent & destructive young people who do not respond to traditional reward & punishment/behaviour modification approaches. Cost - £40 per person (includes lunch and refreshments) Places are limited so please book early to avoid disappointment. #OnlineBooking #1dayIntroductiontoNVRWorkshop #NVRWorkshops #FarCottonRecCentre #Northampton #NVR #NVRTraining #NVRSupp

All behaviour is a form of communication and “At the root of every tantrum and power struggle are unmet needs.” - Marshall B Rosenberg #BonnieHarris #MarshallBRosenberg #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #ACEs #AdverseChildhoodExperiences #Connection #RelationalRepair #Connectedness #ConnectedChildRaising #ExtremeBehaviour #APVA

1-day Introduction to Nonviolent Resistance Workshop (4th Aug 2018) for anyone who lives/ works with violent & destructive young people who do not respond to traditional reward & punishment/behaviour modification approaches. Full details here #ChallengingBehaviour #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #NonviolentResistance #NVR #NVRTraining #NVRSupport #DevelopmentalTrauma #TraumaInformed #ChildhoodTrauma #ParentalSupport #ConnectedChildRaising #

“Thinking of your child as 'behaving badly' disposes you to think of punishment. Thinking of your child as 'struggling to handle something difficult' encourages you to help them through their distress.” #JanetLandsbury #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #APVA #ACEs #Development #TraumaInformed #DevelopmentalTrauma #Connection #Connectedness #ConnectedChildRaising #ExtremeBehaviour

“See a child differently, see a different child.” - Stuart Shanker ‪“Treating behaviour like misbehaviour means we punish. Treating behaviour as stress behaviour means we help.” - Stuart Shanker ‬ #SelfRegulation #ChallengingBehaviour #ExtremeBehaviour #ToxicStress #StuartShanker #CompassionateAction

#ChallengingBehaviour #ExtremeBehaviour #Schools #AnnetteBreaux

The principles of Nonviolent Resistance are simple, so all involved parties (extended family and friends, teachers, police officers, social workers etc) can co-ordinate their actions within it’s clear framework – providing the young person with an all-encompassing ‘safety blanket’ of organised adults. #HaimOmer #Boundaries #Closeness #NewAuthority #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ChallengingBehaviour #ExtremeBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #TraumaInformed #APVA

We must come up with community responses that support violent children in developing their self regulation - even if one-to-one were affordable, it's no solution; it says 'we expect you to be dangerous and incapable of better'. Children will become what they are told they are... Nonviolent Resistance can help... #BreneBrown #SelfRegulation #ViolentChild #ExtremeBehaviour #ChallengingBehaviour #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ConnectedChildRaising

Reward & punishment based approaches do not work for all children/ teenagers. Nonviolent Resistance is an ethically-sound alternative that can transform a domestic warzone into a harmonious household, with effects that frequently extend beyond the familial and into the societal. #ChallengingBehaviour #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #ViolentChild #CPV #ParentalSupport #AdoptionSupport #CPVA #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ChildtoParentViolence #APVA #ExtremeBehaviour #Destruct

#ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CompassionateAction #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ChildtoParentViolence #CPVA #APVA #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #ExtremeBehaviour #DestructiveChild

Carrie Grant speaks to Al Coates and Scott Carson-Rennie in the latest episode of the Adoption and Fostering Podcast. She is open and honest about their struggles with Child to Parent Violence and the help that NVR (Nonviolent Resistance) has been to them. “One thing I do think has had a massive impact on us in terms of parenting for an adopted child is Nonviolent Resistance... that absolutely changed our lives.” #Fostering #CPV #NonviolentResistance #NVR #AlCoatesMBE #Carrie

In dealing with a child’s extreme and challenging behaviour, “Nonviolent Resistance begins with the acknowledgement that the child is not the problem - the problem is the problem”. #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ParentalSupport #AdoptionSupport #MarshallBRosenberg #ChildtoParentViolence #CPVA #APVA #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #ViolentChild #ExtremeBehaviour #DestructiveChild

#ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #Trauma #RussellBarkley #ChildtoParentViolence #APVA #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #DestructiveChild

#ParentalSupport #CompassionateAction #NonviolentResistance #NVR #LRKnost #CPV #CPVA #ChallengingBehaviour #ChildtoParentViolence #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #APVA #DestructiveChild

Reward-and-punishment-based approaches simply do not work for all children or teenagers. Nonviolent Resistance is an ethically-sound alternative that can transform a domestic warzone into a harmonious household... #RewardandPunishment #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #CPVA #ParentalSupport #ChildtoParentViolence #MarshallBRosenberg #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #ViolentChild #APVA #DestructiveChild

Traumatised & attachment-injured children are prone to respond to authority with anger & defiance. Reward & punishment will not work with them, because compliance to authority is experienced as psychological annihilation. NVR can help... #CPV #CPVA #TraumaInformed #NonviolentResistance #NVR #ChildtoParentViolence #MarshallBRosenberg #Quotes #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #DevelopmentalTrauma #APVA

#TraumaInformed #CompassionateAction #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #MarshallBRosenberg #Quotes #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #CPVA #DestructiveChild #APVA

“For many adopted families CPVA is an issue but we are relatively small in number, beyond our circle other communities experience the same challenges of living with aggression and violent behaviour from the children they care for. These are much larger communities facing similar challenges accessing appropriate effective support. So please take the time to complete the survey, if you know a family that experiences CPVA share it with them so we can further build our knowledge

This powerful animation video, from The Open Nest, was created 3 years ago... It was produced by adopters and adoptees to raise awareness of the support needs of traumatised children. There is still much to be done! #ViolentChild #TraumaInformed #ChildhoodTrauma #AdoptedChildren #CPV #TraumatizedYouth #Trauma #MyChildHitsMe #TheOpenNest #ParentalSupport #ChallengingBehaviour #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #APVA #DevelopmentalTrauma #DestructiveChild #CPV

“Looked-after children’s needs do not disappear overnight with a successful adoption placement...” The Adoption Support Fund helps adopted families access therapeutic support to help them cope with challenging issues like Child to Parent Violence. Follow this link to find out more about the fund and how to apply. #AdoptionSupport #ParentalSupport #NVR #ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #APVA #ExtremeBehaviour #ViolentChild #ViolentandDestructiveYoungPeople #CPVA #DevelopmentalTrauma